Controlling personality in large language models is important for building conversational agents that can be customized to different users and interaction settings. However, existing personality control methods often face a tradeoff between strong trait expression and natural dialogue generation. We introduce FATE-5, Faithful Alignment of Trait Expression for the Big Five, a two-stage framework that separates personality encoding from naturalness alignment. FATE-5 first learns continuous soft prompt representations of Big Five profiles using dialogue supervision and an auxiliary survey objective. It then improves dialogue naturalness through preference alignment based on both dialogue quality and personality agreement. Across three language model backbones, FATE-5 maintains strong trait expression while achieving substantially higher dialogue naturalness than other trait-strong methods. On held-out questionnaires, it achieves monotonicity correlations of 0.97-0.99 and recovery RMSE of 8.9-12.4, substantially improving over the evaluated baselines. These results demonstrate effective continuous personality control while maintaining natural conversational behavior.
Controlling the personality of a language model usually relies on written profiles or named trait categories, so it can only express what an author writes down or what a taxonomy names. We instead propose Personality Latents (PL), which learn a latent for each person from their own writing, with no personality labels and no authored profile, and inject it into a frozen language model as a soft prefix. Following generative latent optimization, each training person receives a free latent that is optimized through the frozen model itself, while an encoder learns to predict these latents so that a new person needs only one forward pass, with optional refinement at test time. We evaluate on held-out people by having the conditioned model answer neutral and interview questions and reading personality from its answers with scorers trained on real human writing. On the MBTI axes PL reaches an AUC of , ahead of persona embedding and prompt-based baselines under identical settings, and the ranking holds when the answers are scored in three different embedding spaces. A latent learned with Qwen2.5-3B-Instruct also transfers personality to Llama-3.1-8B-Instruct through a new adapter alone.